Never to late....continued

I have to stop being the me that isssssssssssssssssss for OTHERS!!!!! I have to find my balance! How can I navigate others when I can't even navigate myself??? I know good question? I have this major complex about hurting others, not pleasing others....I was raised to be that girl.. The one that lives for others, takes care of others, and forsakes herself... I guess that's a noble profession. But why can't I have both? Why can't I be a nice, good person, who helps others....and have something for me as well???? Why Not???? It's never to late to be what you might have been....this quote echos in my mind daily...Is that true... ? Thoughts....?